How Our Emotions Affect Our Health & Well-Being

As a Soul Whisperer, my job is to communicate with my clients’ Higher Self, and ask which damaging emotions have been stored within the body.  Each imbalance can be attributed to certain negative emotions.  Let me explain.

Challenges will always confront us in life, but it is how we deal with them that will contribute to our health and well-being. Or in the case of emotional or physical pain and discomfort, it is often because we have not taken positive action. If we confront our challenges head-on, in a proactive way, looking for solutions and putting our welfare and best interests first, then life can flow through and around us with ease and joy.

The opposite is true when we try to ignore our challenges.  We usually do this due to fear that if we choose to take positive action, it will be emotionally very difficult.  We know that we need to act positively, but fear keeps us from doing so.  Unfortunately, the negative emotional challenge that we are dealing with cannot be released from our body until resolution takes place, so the emotion then crystallises in the body and the result is often pain and discomfort and our mental health and well-being can also be affected.

Issues such as back pain and depression are very common in today’s world, and I help many people overcome these.  As a former osteopath, I realised that manipulation was not always the answer, and through a process, I then learnt how to hear the bodies message, and help it release it’s hurt using what would be termed ‘energy healing’.

What lies beneath

To find out what is causing the ill health and discomfort in your body, we need to look at what lies beneath.

“It is very common that those that seek my help, experience profound change after just one session, and after a few sessions working down through the many built-up layers, a positive transformation has taken place”. 

On my Facebook Page I asked what physical or emotional challenges people were experiencing.  Following are the topics discussed.

Strong physical conditions reflect deep unexpressed feelings.  As blood flow represents the flow of love and joy, which when constricted and compressed emotionally, sometimes due to an intense hidden bitterness there may be a subconscious death wish and a rejection of life.  The feelings can come from believing that there is a lack of recognition and support in one’s life so would rather die than change.

Welcome change with open arms and be as adaptable as possible to the new.  This allows joy and love to flow again.

These are a result of our soul trying to communicate with us, and we refuse to listen. The emotion behind the condition comes from a desire for more personal freedom and time, but you do not know how to go about it. There is a tendency to take on a lot of work even though you find the load too heavy. It is heavy because you exaggerate the importance of small problems. You worry too much. You find life weighty and unwieldy, but you continue to push yourself.

Allow yourself a little time to put your feet up and relax without guilt and without feeling that you are not pulling your weight. Listen to your heart and it will guide you in the direction towards what you really want.

Comes from driving oneself to the limit resulting in overload. The origin of which comes from our believing we are not good enough.  If we perceive our childhood to be challenging, usually by a lack of attention or value, resulting in poor self-worth, we then become determined to prove ourselves by working hard or perfectionism.  This is trying to show the world that we are good enough, although inwardly we do not believe it.  The effort created in doing this is so exhausting, especially when we use the brain, which uses a great deal of energy.  In doing this we can also create a stress virus (Epstein Barr).  With the ‘law of attraction’ we can create candida, parasites, digestive problems etc.

It is vital to address the emotional and energetic reasons, as the physical has been trying to express these feelings for a long time.   One of the best and fastest ways to achieve this can be found in applying my Living Lens healing disk.

Like other conditions, this goes back to your childhood when you felt that you were not given a voice by others’. Very often there is a feeling of humiliation resulting in a lack of self-love. There will be a fear of self-expression, as at one stage of your life you have been made to believe that it has been inappropriate.  It relates to the throat Chakra, which relates to expressing your personal power.

As you have not expressed what you feel, because, no way do you want to offend or upset others, there has built up inside you a deep sense of frustration and anxiety, together with rage at being left out. (This can all be in the subconscious).

It is time to make more requests as to what you really want. This will honour your ‘I AM’.

Spider veins can have a similar program to varicose veins, as the blood system represents joy in our lives. There is a stagnation of joy occurring. We can not wait for someone or something to bring us joy. We must let go of any resistance and create that joy. Start now. Do not wait.

The emotional cause of fibroids can be due to a rejection of femininity, sexuality, womanhood and/or motherhood, resulting in unexpressed guilt, shame, inner confusion or past hurts and abuse for being female. It can also be attributed to regret regarding losing a baby, or the absence of a baby. This sense of loss can come from an abortion or miscarriage, as well as a self-reproach or guilt on a decision as not to have children.


With Energetic Wisdom techniques, the crystalised emotions in the system can often be quickly cleared.  Which will enable the physical condition to clear.


I offer appointments in person in Hampshire, or over the internet.  I also offer distance healing and can help children. 

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